Last Sunday,one of my school friend had texted me to find and confirm is that me who is blogging with several ideas in my Facebook page.She said,she couldn’t believe and were discussing with others about me.She asked thrice,Is that really you ? ,inspite of telling it’s me and am sharing activities which I do with my son at home so that it would be helpful for others.
I m not angry with her but to be honest,I am hurt.Its all because of the label during my school days.I had very supporting parents who used to motivate me at all times but I was labelled by few of my teachers that I m a weak student,Fails to understand,donot know basic,Sensitive ,Shy,Not social , irresponsible and the list of labels goes on.A day never passed without label.
When my paper comes for correction,my teacher used to tell me it’s bhuvaneswari paper,I can correct in seconds as there would be nothing to check.I really would have put lots of hardwork because of my parents motivation.These labels by certain teachers made me to lose interest in studies.I was labelled that I am total waste,useless and not fit for anything.
I still remember a incident which is still in my eyes,I was studying in 5th standard at that time.Everyone used to share food in our class during lunch but when I share my food,few of my classmates used to throw my food very easily outside the window which mom prepared with lots of pain , stating that if they eat my food,they will become dull student like me.All of them used to laugh at me.
Another incident which I can never forget is that my teacher speaking to my mom,my mom used to pick me from school,my teacher told me as your daughter is weak student,I will conduct her oral exam tomorrow when others oral would be conducted according to timetable.My mom used to encourage me at all situations.According to the teacher,conducting oral exam for me was waste of time as she had already decided in her mind that I will not perform.
Things changed when I joined different school in my 11th standard,I was sitting alone with fear of labelling me again in my new school by my teachers and other friends.But I was very fortunate to meet a very good teacher in my life ,Ramani miss who was turning point in my life.The way I see life totally changed and after that I learnt to never give up.I learnt how to face my label and took very long time to come out with label of my first half of school life.
There are many incidents which has happened in my life due to labelling me.I have experienced personally about the impact of label.I donot understand from my textbooks,my score was low but I have my interest in other things.I m unique ,I am happy for being myself.
Even now,I m labelled being irresponsible mother by few people which I really donot care.I was labelled that I m careless mother who was the reason for my son’s recent hospitalisation.It’s very easy to label but how much it hurts ,you will never understand.
We parents,grandparents,caretakers,teachers,relatives,friends unknowingly or knowingly ,we tend to label the child and other as She is hyperactive,he is dumb,He donot know anything,he is talkative,Her attention is very low.he is a weak student,dull boy,lazy,careless,slow eater,poor learner and so many other things.You wouldn’t have any wrong intentions and you may forget it,but the situation with child/ person whom you labelled will not be same,it will affect very deeply in their mind.
At some point of time,if you would have labelled someone either in your school ,college days,office or any place ,please do make sure that you donot repeat it again forever.
I have seen two phases of my school life which is good label and bad label.Label is label whether it’s good or bad.I don’t prefer any of the labels.I know what I am and I don’t need labels.I love to be myself.
It has happened with me,it may happen with my child,your child or with any one of us.My one and only humble request to each and everyone of you,please donot label anyone.It hurts very badly and doesnot heal over the time.
Let’s not label anyone,lets not hurt other feelings as each one of us are unique in our own ways.
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